According to Brian Tracey, a renowned self-help guru, Principle
of control is one of the most important factors of life. This
principle ascertains that you feel positive about yourself to
the degree to which you feel you are in control of your life.
The same way, you feel negative about yourself to the degree
to which you feel that you are controlled by external forces.

The thing is if you don’t feel positive about yourself, it would
be impossible for you to become successful. This means to
become happy and successful you need to regain control of your
life.  The following suggestions will help you achieve this:

Set Goals

Goals are like road maps. If you are planning to visit a new place
and don’t grab a road map of the place with you, most certainly,
you will have difficulties in finding the place. A written goal
will give you a clear idea of what exactly you would like to
achieve. Goals also give you a sense of control over your
directions.

Goal should be Specific: I would like to become a better online
businessman is not a goal. It’s a mere statement! Goals should
have clear, substantiated and detailed target!

Goal should be measurable: I would like to get 100 thousand new
visitors to my site within six months is a specific and
measurable goal.

Goal should be realistic: I want my site to become like Yahoo!
within one year is probably a unrealistic and impossible goal.
If your goal is too easy to achieve or an impossible one to
reach, you will soon loose interest in it. Make sure that your
goal is high but attainable.

Set a deadline: Each of your goals should have specific
deadlines for their achievement.

Create a detail plan of action: List every action you have to
take in order to achieve a certain goal.

List obstacles: Write down all the obstacles that you might
encounter on your way to reach this goal. Each time you overcome
an obstacle from your list, you will feel good about yourself.
This will work as a motivation for you to continue.

Make Lists

While developing your plan of actions for your goals, make two
basic lists, a comprehensive master list and a more specific
daily to do list.

The master list is a single ongoing list of all things that
you plan to do in order to achieve your goals. It does not
matter whether it is a major goal achieving work with a year
long continuation or a small urgent task you need to finish
today. Whenever you have come up with a task that you have
to do, you add it to your master list.

Each evening create a specific daily to do list for the next
work day. Make sure that this list is not too long; and all
tasks of this list can be finished within the next working
day. If some of the tasks, however, remain untouched at the
end of the day, just roll them over to the next day’s list.

To use this list effectively you have to distribute your tasks
according to their priorities.

Remember Priorities

Since it is impossible to predict whether you will be able
to finish all the tasks from your list in one day, and
since some of the tasks are more important than others;
you should prioritized the tasks according to their
importance in achieving your goals.

To develop a priority-based to do list, write all the tasks
you are planning to carry out the next day. Go through the
list carefully and mark each of them according to their
priority: A to be the most important and D to be the least
important tasks of the list. Reconstruct the list according
to the assigned priorities.

Start working form the task number one from you list and go
down accordingly. This priority-based to do list will be
able to guarantee the followings:

You will know which tasks should be carried out first
You will always have a comprehensive to do list, allowing
you to focus on the things that you need to.
However, make sure that you don’t have more than three tasks
with highest priority. As too many high priority tasks will
keep you under stress and will constantly distract you from
the job at hand.

Focus on One Thing

To be successful in any field you need to have many qualities.
The ability to focus on the tasks of highest priority and
continue working on them until you bring them to their
logical end is one of the vital skills of success.  Many
people of mediocre abilities achieved great success thanks
to just this one single quality.

Once you made your to do list and prioritized it, concentrate
on one task at a time. No matter what we do, our mind can
concentrate in one thing at a time only. If you try to do
several things simultaneously, this will only distract you
and slower your pace in accomplishing the task with highest
priority.

These simple and well-known rules can really do miracles to
your life! Try them, you won’t be disappointed!

Nowshade Kabir is the founder, primary developer and present
CEO of Rusbiz.com. A Ph. D. in Information Technology, he
has wide experience in Business Consulting, International
Trade and Web Marketing. Rusbiz is a Global B2B Emarketplace
with solutions to start and run online business.
 

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